Flirting
is an art that some girls have, and some girls don’t.
One
has to have a complete understanding of a man’s mind in order to articulately
enter and rule it. Usually men are attracted to women who are confident about
themselves and not too easy to get.
Guys
as we all know are always excited to see a charming girl and therefore they
love the idea of flirting. However, this doesn't mean that they will
outrageously flirt with every girl they come across. Some guys are even cowards
to the extent that they avoid making the first move. Obviously, they wouldn't want to be called ‘perverts’.
Guys
always look out for the signs from the girl before proceeding further. So, it’s
very necessary for a girl to make the right moves to attract a guy’s attention.
You as a girl have to let him know that you’re approachable and open to healthy
flirting.
Make
sure to read his body language before giving him any signs. Don’t be scared to
be the first one to approach or you may lose your chance! Go with the flow and
let your natural feelings show. Be yourself, don’t imitate.
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BE CONFIDENT ABOUT YOURSELF
Whether you're fat, skinny, black or
white, you are all beautiful. In my eyes, there are a lot of you who don’t use
yourself to your full potential. You need to start believing that anything and
everything can happen to you, you're a princess in your own way, you’re all
beautiful, just smile because you deserve to. Be confident and comfortable in
your skin. Loving yourself is the first rule to charm a guy!
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THE CURVE ON YOUR FACE IS ESSENTIAL
Guys
are bowled over by a happy girl. Smile is the best make-up you can put on to
naturally charm a guy. Be sure to smile and laugh occasionally while conversing
with the guy you want to flirt with. Don’t give cocky comments as it usually
makes the guy stay away. Just a little blush on your face when he compliments
you, will make his heart skip a beat.
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EXPRESSIONS
Shot
him a coy smile as you pass by him. It would act as a friendly gesture. Eye
contact is another key expression to show a guy that you are interested in him.
It’s basically finding a guy you have an attraction to and holding that gaze.
Remember, the next time you’re having a conversation with a guy you like, look
into his eyes deeply and smile as he’s talking to you. It may confuse him or
make him feel awkward, but a deep eye contact and a happy smile will definitely
leave him weak in his knees. Spend a few minutes in front of the mirror every
day and work on your expressions. Learn to use your eyes and your facial
expressions to your advantage, and you won’t really need words to impress a guy
and make him flirt with you.
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LAUGH AT HIS JOKES
It
shows you’re interested and have a good sense of humour. Plus, humour is a
personal characteristic, which shows him you’re comfortable around him.
Laughing at your crush’s jokes will make him comfortable around you as well and
give him an idea of your interest.
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COMPLIMENT HIM
Who doesn't love compliments? And compliments are one of the stepping stones of a
happy flirty conversation. If you like something about a guy, make sure you
compliment him for that. He would love the fact that you noticed something nice
about him, and furthermore, he’d go out of his way to have a flirty
conversation with you. Also, if he’s being rather courteous or
chivalrous, thank him with a warm smile.
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BE EXPRESSIVE
Open
your heart to him. Talk, talk and talk. Guys love to hear your sweet voice. Though
make sure you don’t overdo it. Try to keep your conversation on the topic of
his interests. You can run your hands through your hair to show off your
confidence or tuck your hair behind your ears with your fingers to show off
your sexy cuteness. But whatever you do, it’ll only make a guy’s jaw drop in
awe. So don’t be afraid to express yourself.
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PLAY ALONG
You
should learn to put him down in jest, or make him work harder to impress you. You
can’t always put him on a pedestal using happy words. Don’t be too easy to get
or the guy may lose interest. Guys love adventures. If you want to successfully
flirt with a guy and make him like you, you have to make him feel special. But
the flirty game still has to be in your control. If you don’t like his joke,
say it. Make him feel good, but play along during the conversation.
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BE GIRLY
A
brash or loud girl is actually more of a turn off for guys than anything else. Try
to be subtle and feminine, be it in your voice or the way you dress. You need to make him feel like he can protect you. Men
simply love it. If you want him to be drawn to you, you need to let him take
the lead at least for a few minutes. Men
like to take the lead, be it asking a girl out or flirting with her, so just
play it easy and wait for him to start flirting with you. After all, you don’t
want to start flirting before he does and risk a chance of getting blown off,
do you?
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THAT MAGICAL TOUCH
The
touch is essential. Guys are forever drawn to a girl’s touch. It’s involuntary,
but every time a girl touches a guy, either on his arm or his shoulder, the guy
opens up more and feels more comfortable to talk to the girl or flirt with her.
There’s a subtle difference between healthy touching and making it seem vulgar!
# AVOID BEING DOMINATING
Flirting isn't a difficult task but doing it the right way is what makes the difference! Use your talent to best suit yourself. Good luck girls. Get yours guys. Cheers!
Love,
Ila.
Ila.
